please your woman
...Guys! i am going to be really vulnerable here. I have posted some videos on youtube that you can watch.
I want to give you some really practical advice on how to please women. Please let me know what you think and what you want to know.
The reasons are:
1. I find it very frustrating to be with a guy - most don't know what they are doing, how to touch a female body, it is a total mystery to them..
and we, women, put up with it!! but i know you are doing your best...
2. I recognize the pressure you are in from us , women. Yes, we are complicated, difficult, alien beings...yet we are soooo similar. I really want to help.
3. I believe we can heal our relationships, our Earth if we heal ourselves with these simple things: breath - full, long and deep, self awareness, relaxing into the moment, fully embracing and accepting the self, healing the feminine and healing the masculine. It is an exciting self re-discovery process.
4. i am considering doing a 1 to 1 individually designed course for you guys. Ideally you can bring your lady.
i can give you all information i know - Tantra is mainly about boundaries and surrendering.
tell you what i want or do not want, what pleases me or does not please me. The same may or may not apply to other women. it can be very uncomfortable but very effective long term, very enlightening.
I really appreciate all of you , beautiful men, I am very touched by your courage to be vulnerable and to dive into the unknown with me or the woman you choose to be with. I love you. I admire your stability, patience with us, your sense of humour and lightness when we need it, your strength.
We women are complicated. And i think patient with you too.
This page is dedicated to you who are wondering how to really connect with a woman on a deep level.
We (i mean all of us) want to connect.
we (women) want to give ourselves to you to realky open surrender to be felt to be seen to be loved by you.
Here are some facts, which may not apply to some..., ok maybe my observasions ...
For us sex is more important than for men. if you are great in the physical she might consider you. It is not everything though.
We want sex but we also want to connect on a deeper level.
You can do it with these simple tips, even if it is for 1 night only.
I actually find that men are the ones who want the long term thing...women want great sex.
by great sex i mean you touch her on deep level
we want your full presence
we want you to admire our bodies, our wit, our taste, our smell, our skills, our hair or lips but only if it is true. you love us and you express freely and courageously what you feel. With your words wiyh your hands and with your actions.
we want you to give us your full attention when we speak and not interrupt us
we want you to be emotionally stable because we are like the waters of an ocean that always change - you are our lighthouse!
great sex:
the last thing you want to touch on a woman's body is her pussy
you need to relax her, relax her whole body she melts
she has to beg you for sex. 3x. Three times!
the more you relax her the more she will open surrender open open to you
Our vaginas are directly connected to our hearts. So the better the love making the stronger the love. The fore play starts hours before hand.
Some women have a lot of trauma in their vaginas. Your fingers hands and penis can heal this. You can massage externally and internally every sq cm on the outside and inside.
I want to give you some really practical advice on how to please women. Please let me know what you think and what you want to know.
The reasons are:
1. I find it very frustrating to be with a guy - most don't know what they are doing, how to touch a female body, it is a total mystery to them..
and we, women, put up with it!! but i know you are doing your best...
2. I recognize the pressure you are in from us , women. Yes, we are complicated, difficult, alien beings...yet we are soooo similar. I really want to help.
3. I believe we can heal our relationships, our Earth if we heal ourselves with these simple things: breath - full, long and deep, self awareness, relaxing into the moment, fully embracing and accepting the self, healing the feminine and healing the masculine. It is an exciting self re-discovery process.
4. i am considering doing a 1 to 1 individually designed course for you guys. Ideally you can bring your lady.
i can give you all information i know - Tantra is mainly about boundaries and surrendering.
tell you what i want or do not want, what pleases me or does not please me. The same may or may not apply to other women. it can be very uncomfortable but very effective long term, very enlightening.
I really appreciate all of you , beautiful men, I am very touched by your courage to be vulnerable and to dive into the unknown with me or the woman you choose to be with. I love you. I admire your stability, patience with us, your sense of humour and lightness when we need it, your strength.
We women are complicated. And i think patient with you too.
This page is dedicated to you who are wondering how to really connect with a woman on a deep level.
We (i mean all of us) want to connect.
we (women) want to give ourselves to you to realky open surrender to be felt to be seen to be loved by you.
Here are some facts, which may not apply to some..., ok maybe my observasions ...
For us sex is more important than for men. if you are great in the physical she might consider you. It is not everything though.
We want sex but we also want to connect on a deeper level.
You can do it with these simple tips, even if it is for 1 night only.
I actually find that men are the ones who want the long term thing...women want great sex.
by great sex i mean you touch her on deep level
we want your full presence
we want you to admire our bodies, our wit, our taste, our smell, our skills, our hair or lips but only if it is true. you love us and you express freely and courageously what you feel. With your words wiyh your hands and with your actions.
we want you to give us your full attention when we speak and not interrupt us
we want you to be emotionally stable because we are like the waters of an ocean that always change - you are our lighthouse!
great sex:
the last thing you want to touch on a woman's body is her pussy
you need to relax her, relax her whole body she melts
she has to beg you for sex. 3x. Three times!
the more you relax her the more she will open surrender open open to you
Our vaginas are directly connected to our hearts. So the better the love making the stronger the love. The fore play starts hours before hand.
Some women have a lot of trauma in their vaginas. Your fingers hands and penis can heal this. You can massage externally and internally every sq cm on the outside and inside.
1. Your presence, breath, active listening, eye contact
Connect with breath
Breath and trauma - how is trauma expressed in our lives, behaviour
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3ARhBWyqE4